blabbing

I am a beautiful single woman who has got the worst luck when it comes to men. After talking to a dear friend today I have decided to start the "Man Ban". Yes I am banning men. Which will be a task as I seem to get picked up on and flirted with a lot. This will be good for me since I tend to attract the wrong sorts of men.

As a single parent, and one who hasn't been back on the dating scene for a while I have found dating to be drab and the men out there to be tedious, womanizing, egotistical, and vile. However, I can't just say that these last characteristics are the only characteristics that the majority of the men have, as many of them have qualities that I am looking for it is just they do tend to have egotistical tendencies that come out and they tend to be one's a woman doesn't want to deal with. I get very disinterested and have to leave.

Maybe I am not giving a chance to men however, life is too short to treat me disrespectfully. I am a precious treasure and if a man were to truly want to be a part of my life then he would need to treat me with deep love and respect. I am a wanderer and love life, if you can't live with me then get out of the way.

With that said I must point out a few things:

1. When you are on a date with a woman and you are both dating other people. It is NOT OKAY to text message, call or accept texts/calls from one of the other women you are dating. BIG BIG mistake, it will close off a potentially good relationship. Basically, count yourself out of the picture. Done and over with you just lost an amazing person!
2. Open all doors for a woman. When they are getting in/out of the car. Going in or out of a building. Open all doors!
3. If you are dating a woman and it is her birthday get her at least a card. No card, no call, no text and no gift. No more dating that girl.
4. Don't talk about all your recent conquests. We don't want to hear it.
5. You are egotistical if you say "every" woman wants you as her boyfriend. If you aren't with them they found something wrong with you. If you think they wanted you they said it to make you feel better because you are insecure and it is a huge hint to a woman to run away very quickly.

I am sure I will add to this list but that is a good start for now.